Collage of navy ships, photos of former Navy servicemember Tiara Gray
Credit: Nate John, Bella Ross

Tiara Gray was bright. She was artsy, well-written — an old soul in a young body, people said.

She was from the Appalachian region of Maryland, a small place with few prospects for what many consider “good careers.”

Because Gray was so bright, she scored high on an aptitude test that caught the attention of the U.S. Navy. For Gray, like many people across the country, the military offered rare opportunities. Through the Navy, Gray could have an impressive career, financial stability, job security, travel. So, she joined.

Through her recruitment process, Gray reportedly withheld information about her mental health. Lying is apparently common, and encouraged, during military recruitments.

This week on the VOSD Podcast, senior investigative reporter Will Huntsberry joins the show to tell Gray’s story — and explain what happened after Gray was recruited, as she managed her fragile mental health while stuck in the machine of the U.S. Navy.

Listener warning: This discussion happens in the final segment of the show and contains discussion of self harm and suicide.

If you or someone you know might be considering suicide, there is help. Call or text 988, the Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Crisis Lifeline.

Halverstadt Hang Time

Senior investigative reporter and podcast hotshot Lisa Halverstadt joined the show with fresh news: San Diego Mayor Todd Gloria plans to open a 1,000-bed homeless shelter. She talks with our crew about that development and its massive implications.

Plus, she shares her recent report of the most expensive affordable housing shelters in San Diego.

The most expensive project she found is slated for Rancho Bernardo, which pens out to nearly $911,000 a unit. Oof. Halverstadt explains the bill and how the complex and demanding affordable housing systems boost prices.

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Nate John is the digital manager at Voice of San Diego. He oversees Voice's website, newsletters, podcasts and product team. You can reach him at nate@vosd.org.

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